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Frequently Asked Questions

Why must we travel to get our child?

Are the children guaranteed to be healthy?

What are our costs for international adoption and what does it go for?

What are the requirements of the parents to adopt internationally?

Why does it take so long and require so much paperwork?

Can we be specific about the age, sex and health of a child we wish to adopt?

What information will I receive about the child?

Why don't they try to speed up the overseas process, the kids are waiting, don't they want their children adopted?

How is the child selected for our family?

What things would disqualify us to adopt internationally?

What is our first step to adopt the child of our dreams?


Why must we travel to get our child?
All the countries that we work with have laws in place regarding international adoption. Most of these laws require parents to be present in the court proceedings presided by the county judges. Many U.S. state laws also require the parents to see the child before adoption, these are called pre-adoptive requirements and you should check to see what your states' pre-adoptive requirements are before beginning an adoption. The length of travel is dependant on the country's laws.

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Are the children guaranteed to be healthy?
Whether you give birth to a child, or adopt one there are no guarantees on health. Many of our children are living in institutions and orphanages and may have undiagnosed problems or only partially diagnosed health issues. Some of them have been socially, medically and emotionally deprived for periods of their lives. Some of them may have been legally relinquished by the courts because of a neglect or abuse issue. To help assure that the children are healthy and with the potential to adjust well, we only work with experienced professional facilitation organizations, who see the children themselves, and many of which hire private physicians, social workers and psychologists to evaluate the children. When and if at all possible we try to obtain video tapes of the children so parents can have them evaluated by medical professionals. Know that sometimes it is impossible to obtain the same type of information as you would have on a child born in the United States, but we strive to help our parents discover everything about the child's current and past medical report.

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What are our costs for international adoption and what does it go for?
The cost to adopt internationally is about $13,000.00-30,000.00 total costs, about the same or less than adopting a child or infant domestically. These fees are not paid in one lump sum, but paid as you move along in the adoption process. Consider just the overhead of operating an office. Multiply that by 2 because you will be dealing with at least 2 offices with business expenses, legal staff and operating staff. Then you have drivers and transportation on behalf of yourself as your facilitator runs around doing preadoptive paperwork. Sometimes they have to travel great distances to file paperwork and get the ball rolling. Facilitation agencies spend a much money on fed-ex and communication with the US based office. Office supplies are more expensive and harder to come by overseas. The dossier is many pages and takes translator hours of non-stop work to translate and type. The costs overseas are numerous and add up. The services that the family pays for are well worth all that is paid; yet the amounts are sometimes out of the agency control. Our agency fees are for the case management and professional services. Foreign fees are for services abroad and orphanage donations. To maintain licensing and provide high quality services we have to cover all operating expenses and provide a sufficient reserve for emergencies or problems. Problems do occur during international adoption sometimes and it is comforting to know that you have a caring agency that you can call, before, during or after your adoption. In addition you will have travel expenses, home study expenses, INS processing expenses and document gathering costs.

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What are the requirements of the parents to adopt internationally?
This depends on each country. The INS requires that you have to be 25 years of age to adopt internationally. We accept all race and religious affiliations. Couples must be married, unless a special exception is made. A prior divorce is acceptable. At least one adoptive parent should be a U.S. citizen. Applicants must have enough money to pay all the agency and adoption expenses and raise the child. Applicants with chronic diseases or handicaps must obtain a doctors statement as to their ability to cope with an adoption and parent a child.

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Why does it take so long and require so much paperwork?
Adoption laws are in place to protect both family and child here and abroad. There is no room for exceptions when it comes to adoption law and all legal matters are to be followed by the book according to the law of the country you are adopting from. There are two governments that will be involved in the adoption of your child, so the process becomes a verty tedious affair. Many times there is an additional Ministry of Education or centralized adoption committee that we will deal with in other countries to add to the wait and paperwork.

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Can we be specific about the age, sex and health of a child we wish to adopt?
Yes you can in most all of the countries. We try to match a child that fits the family acceptance criteria. All of your choices can be listed on our application.

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What information will I receive about the child?
You will have a photo and in some cases a video to review prior to the commitment to your referral child. You will receive a current medical report and usually if available a social history explaining how the child came to be in the orphanage. These reports vary in quantity and quality of information. Sometimes you will receive observations about the child's personality and school records. Very little information is usually available about the birth parents unless documentation exists to prove health or social problems. The children are all tested for communicative diseases, and must pass an additional medical exam to receive the exit visa out of their countries, however one cannot assertain what has occured with the child after the initial medical evaluation before we receive the information. All of our children are legally available for adoption.

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Why don't they try to speed up the overseas process, the kids are waiting, don't they want their children adopted?
Many times, no. A stigma has loomed over the international adoption world that darkens adoptive parent's intentions to adopt and raise these beautiful children. These ideas sometimes are well founded and other times outrageous rumors like; couples wanting to use the child in slavery all the way to; adoption on the basis of organ harvesting and black-market selling of the organs. Foreign governments worry about the safety of their children; they mourn the loss of their treasures, their children, and would love to see the children reunited with their families or adopted domestically in their own country, although economically this isn't often possible. Sometimes it is an embarrassment for countries to open their orphanages, hospitals and institution doors to Americans to judge their ideas and reasoning behind socialized institutional settings and childcare. Most of the countries allow these adoptions because of political pressure to do so. Some regions or counties in each country are more adoption friendly than others. We have tried to select these adoption friendly areas for our familes. This is why we suggest that you discuss your adoption with no one other than staff and people you meet affiliated with the adoption while you are on your adoption journey.

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How is the child selected for our family?
Our social work staff, combined with your homestudy agent's recommendation, along with the support of our foreign social work staff, starts at the beginning by counseling parents to locate their strong and weak spots in order to make decisions regarding the age, race, gender, health and number of children to be adopted at the same time. We consider whether the parents can handle the risks involved in adoption of two unrelated children, two unrelated children of the same age "artificial twinning" and the placement of children out of birth order. All of these criteria will be evaluated on each and every family. We work with the foreign staff, after your home study is complete to locate a child or children that will best suit your family according to the descriptions we are able to come up with in our information gathering about your family. We only place siblings in the same family when there is knowledge of available siblings.

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What things would disqualify us to adopt internationally?
If you are a convicted felon, drug addict, HIV positive or have mental illness you need not apply. We are very serious about finding stable non-dysfunctional familes for our children.

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What is our first step to adopt the child of our dreams?
You will need to fill out a LMI application and send it in with the application fee and appropriate program fee due with application. If you wish you may send it in for prior review without the fee, but your adoption will not be processed until the fee is paid. Then the adoption process will begin. If you reside out of the Texas Panhandle LMI will assist you in locating a home study agent that is affiliated with an international adoption agency. The home study assesses your ability to handle the stresses of adoption and parent the child, and provides proof that you are physically, emotionally and financially healthy and stable in your relationship. There will be specific documents you must gather for the homestudy and may also require that you be fingerprinted and run through the child abuse registry in your state. In addition to the home study you will be required to fill out an I-600A form from the INS. LMI will assist you to fill this out. This will begin the process of your international adoption on the immigration side. You can submit the I600A without your homestudy, and send it after it is approved. See our Getting started with your adoption page.

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